On Fri, 30 May 2014 08:07:33 -0400, Doc NP-f31 wrote:
>Dear Double V,
>
>I apologize for having missed your post for so long. The thread that
>you posted to ended up not being the main thread. Allow me to give my
>opinion on your interest statement. I will reprint it here to allow
>others to follow and join in:
>
>Victor wrote:
>
>I have long maintained that, to best understand the motivations of
>Boylovers, one must view the personal Boylove relationship precisely
>as heterosexual relationships are viewed. In other words, to
>understand Boylove, you must understand heterosexual love.
>
>I agree completely with your statement. I have loved both boys and
>women/girls in my life. When I have fallen in love with a boy, and I
>have had that frustrating honor, I have experienced the same emotions
>and feelings as I did when I met and fell in love with the young lady
>who eventually became my wife.
>
>I remember the moment when I fell in love with my wife. I looked into
>her eyes and something grabbed me inside. I knew I wouldn't be the
>same thereafter. It was a very similar feeling when I fell in love
>with the boy I consider 'the love of my life'. I was looking into his
>eyes and that overwhelming feeling of love overtook me. This time I
>knew what it meant and it scared me because I knew I could not have
>the same sort of relationship with him that I did with her.
>
>The feelings are the same. The instant attraction at first meeting,
>the silly, but enjoyable feelings of infatuation, the feeling of
>romantic love - they're all the same. We must simply learn to deal
>with them differently. I was able to give my boy a real romantic kiss
>as I taught him how to kiss when he acquired his first girlfriend.
>That kiss blew the top off of my head. It had a similar affect on him
>as well, as he asked for another. Two incredible kisses and I wanted
>more, but it would have to do.
>
>The hardest part for me was learning to channel all of my sexual
>energy into something else. I had to teach myself to make it about
>him. Making it about me would have been disasterous. I was able to
>make the right decisions, but that is for another discussion.
>
>I would be interested to read the opinion of others.
>
>Love to VV and all,
>
>Doc
>NP-f31
Dear Doc,
Thank you for your reply. I had waited some time for a response but,
as with other efforts I've made here over a year or more, garnered
none.
Yet in the interest of discussion, may I ask you:
Why would it have been disasterous?
Sincerely,
V
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God Preserve the Windsors.
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