Dear Double V,
I apologize for having missed your post for so long. The thread that
you posted to ended up not being the main thread. Allow me to give my
opinion on your interest statement. I will reprint it here to allow
others to follow and join in:
Victor wrote:
I have long maintained that, to best understand the motivations of
Boylovers, one must view the personal Boylove relationship precisely
as heterosexual relationships are viewed. In other words, to
understand Boylove, you must understand heterosexual love.
I agree completely with your statement. I have loved both boys and
women/girls in my life. When I have fallen in love with a boy, and I
have had that frustrating honor, I have experienced the same emotions
and feelings as I did when I met and fell in love with the young lady
who eventually became my wife.
I remember the moment when I fell in love with my wife. I looked into
her eyes and something grabbed me inside. I knew I wouldn't be the
same thereafter. It was a very similar feeling when I fell in love
with the boy I consider 'the love of my life'. I was looking into his
eyes and that overwhelming feeling of love overtook me. This time I
knew what it meant and it scared me because I knew I could not have
the same sort of relationship with him that I did with her.
The feelings are the same. The instant attraction at first meeting,
the silly, but enjoyable feelings of infatuation, the feeling of
romantic love - they're all the same. We must simply learn to deal
with them differently. I was able to give my boy a real romantic kiss
as I taught him how to kiss when he acquired his first girlfriend.
That kiss blew the top off of my head. It had a similar affect on him
as well, as he asked for another. Two incredible kisses and I wanted
more, but it would have to do.
The hardest part for me was learning to channel all of my sexual
energy into something else. I had to teach myself to make it about
him. Making it about me would have been disasterous. I was able to
make the right decisions, but that is for another discussion.
I would be interested to read the opinion of others.
Love to VV and all,
Doc
NP-f31
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