On Sat, 24 Dec 2016 01:40:24 -0500, mike wrote:
>On Sat, 24 Dec 2016 06:14:13 +0000, "|--Spike=-"
><|--Spike=-@Home.Co.UK> wrote:
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>>>My Great Grandma use to tell me there are three sides to every story: the
>>>right side, the wrong side AND THE TRUE SIDE.
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>>>Just sayin'
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>>I agree, I have always said that there are three sides to every story,
>>yours/mine/The Truth... people will always put their own 'spin' on a
>>story or event to make the story (or history) side with THEM or how
>>THEY want it to read !
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>>I quickly learned this after a nasty split with my ex. who tried (and
>>often succeeded) in turning my kids against me.
>>
>>A Woman Scorned rings a bell :)
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>That SUX!
>Same with my ex and my son.
>Women can be master manipulators like that.
>
>I've found there is no truth, only opinion and speculation.
>And so called 'experts' are only experts if you agree with their
>opinion....
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Yep !
Same as deciding how much to actually tell your kids what happened and
what didn't. I often found myself 'in the middle' of a balance of
wanting Them to listen to/accept My side of the story and also... Not
wanting to cause problems in their new life without me being there,
mainly... that they didn't fall out with their Mother OR each other.
I have had to Bite my tongue on a few occasions and seem to be 'The
Bad Person' but as long as my kids don't get mentally fucked up ! Then
So Be It ! :)
We better kill this thread before this group turns into something else
:)
Hope it worked/works out for you.
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