To All Boylovers in Our Groups,
These are tough times for men who love boys. We are vilified in the
media, hunted by authorities and the last safe bastion for prejudice,
hating us is still politically correct. Everyone loves to hate a
boylover. Except, oddly enough, boys. They love us because of what we
provide to them; the caring love of a man.
So in these times when the multimedia that has helped keep boylovers
in control of their urges has dried up and is not readily available, I
fear that boylovers will turn to what is available. There are two
things I fear. One is that some desperate BLs will take chances they
are not prepared to take in order to gain access to content that is
promised. This has ALREADY happened. The other thing I fear is that
desperate BLs will take out their frustration on boys they have access
to. Although I haven't heard of that happening, I suspect that it is
going on as well. If you think about it, it's not likely that anyone
would hear about boys being seduced in these forums.
These are two separate issues. Today I want to focus on the most
important issue. Keeping our boys safe. Safe from US. Those of us that
claim the title Boylover adore boys and adore every aspect of boys.
We, as a group, have the intention of putting the boy's needs above
our own. We know a lot of boys in our everyday lives. We know a lot
about boys. Boys are drawn to us because they see the qualities in us
that set us apart from other men, Dads, etc. The majority of men, even
Dads, are benignly impassive when it comes to boys. They don't pay a
whole lot of attention to boys unless the boys are in the process of
troublemaking. Sure they love them and care about them, but they are
preoccupied with other pursuits. Except for boys with really good
fathers, most boys grow up marginalized by the men in their lives.
This makes boys interested in men who are interested in them.
Fatherless boys, especially are tuned in to BLs. If you're like me,
you can spot a fatherless boy a mile off. Under ideal conditions, a BL
and a Loved Boy (LB) can have a love filled relationship that is
mutually beneficial, and doesn't involve physicality or sexual acts.
In these relationships the common denominator is always this fact: The
Man puts the Boy's needs and welfare above all else. A boy needs love
from you, a boy needs your affection, a boy needs your guidance and
friendship. A boy DOES NOT need your dick up his ass.
Those of you with a boy in your life know that he will do ANYTHING to
make you happy. And you would do the same for him. DO NOT break his
trust. DO NOT take advantage of your position in his life. DON'T be
selfish. A BL-LB relationship can never be about the man. When the
relationship becomes all about fulfilling your needs as a boylover,
the relationship turns into an abusive one.
PLEASE DON'T LET THAT HAPPEN.
Do whatever you need to do ON YOUR OWN to meet your sexual needs. If
you don't have porn because it's no longer available, then use your
imagination and your good right (or left) hand. It is legal to do
ANYTHING in the privacy of your imagination. If you make love to a
boy, make love to him in the safety of your mind only. Don't let
little slip ups lead to bigger things either. Boys in puberty will
stick their penises in anything (and you know this to be true because
YOU did it). Don't take advantage of biology to seduce them a little
at a time. Just don't put yourself, or the boy you love, in a position
that can lead to a mistake. Being a boy is confusing and complicated.
He trusts you to help him learn to make good decisions.
Don't let your desperation ruin your life and the life of the boy you
love.
Yours in Boylove,
Doc
NP-f31
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