regardless of what he may like or not, I would rather not learn that
he DOESNT like the attention, and end up emotionally and
psychologically scaring him. And I would hardly say JB is doing well
for himself. He lived his lie both to those he loved and to himself
for years, and now will spend the rest of his life knowning his
childhood was wasted on being exploited. Especially, having your
self-exploitation culminate with your own father encouraging it and
exploiting you further so HE can make some money. Justin will survive,
but its still a sad life. For him and his family. He will forever be
known as that famous boy-whore. You'd have to have pretty low
selfesteem to desire such an accolade for yourself for the rest of
your life.
Riotboyy was smart enough at least to remain mostly annonymous. Yeah,
he did himself well with his enterprise, but he closed up shop and
disappeared (minus a small 2 month return in 2002) and still no one
even knows his real name (except maybe for a few people who hosted him
or were hosted by him, one of which I believe was Justin, another
being intensed.org/surfstud.net). Safety in annonimity. Now it is only
himself that has to come to grips with his voluntarily being a child
prostitute. Though, if its true that he didnt have a dad, it explains
a lot. That, and he never struck me as being 100% straight to begin
with. I mean, he loved Destiny's Child. And his butt-hole looked awful
stretched out in one vid... he may have had a BF, or a man-friend, or
maybe was just being molested by his soccer coach. Whichever, if any
of those (it may just have been a dildo), he may have craved men's
attention in the manner you are refering, but its still a far cry from
desiring to be an internet, child-whore centerfold. I doubt he saw
that one coming. Maybe thats why he closed up shop. (actually, like
most of these boys, he disappeared once the school year started
rolling along, but maybe its why his return after hiatus failed. He
got many many requests to get naked when he returned, or to pose like
he did in those videos, but those videos were supposed to be
private...? He even encorperated the intended recipients' names into
the video at the end to deter the purchasers from sharing... guess he
didnt expect editing software to be so available!)
Though I am not without my sympathies for your argument. I, too, would
love to be able to walk down a street and admit to a boy he's
attractive and maybe even get teased by him in public. But thats a far
cry from having your PRIVATE sexy webchat traded FOREVER on the
internet by (at best) Boy Lovers, and (at worst) scarry perverts like
it was just another baseball card.
At least Justin was trying to be a porn star. And at least Riotboyy
knowningly sold his videos. Neither of those apply to Gir. And despite
what many of you wish to be true, I feel fairly confident that he is
straight, not even a hint of bi-curious in him. I've known boys that
get on the webcam and entertain men so much that they start to grey
the boundry of their own sexuality; they start putting things up their
ass, or eating their own cum, or start talking (typing) dirty to the
men that watch... and some of that confusion crosses over into real
life (remember Carl Gamby?), but I seriously think NONE of that
applies here to Gir. Mostly, because he only entertains girls, and
seeks out girls. This is not a plea to start having him begin
entertaining guys in the hopes he will become bi-curious or anything,
I am just saying, the boy is a heterosexual (IMHO), deal with it!
Shit, I said I wasnt going to talk about him anymore...sorry, had to
defend my POV.
-Homer
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